Introduction

Imagine a world where every sound is amplified, every light is blinding, everything is in its rightful place, and every social interaction is a puzzle waiting to be solved. For those who have autism, that is the reality that they live. It can sometimes be tiring, annoying, and frustrating, but with the right support, compassion, and understanding, they (and the rest of the family) can thrive. 

What is Autism?

According to the Mayo Clinic, autism spectrum disorder is a condition that is related to brain development that has to do with how a person behaves, perceives, and socialises with the world, which can cause problems with social interactions and communication. Autism can begin in the early stages of childhood and can stay with the child as he/she grows. This disorder can cause problems with functioning in society, at work, in school, at home, etc. While there is no cure for autism, early treatment can make a big difference in the child’s life.

Recognising the Signs, Understanding the Diagnosis

Some signs and diagnoses vary from child to child and can depend on the environment in which the child is raised. Signs of autism can include reduced eye contact, lack of response when their name is called, indifference to people, withdrawal or aggressive behaviours, loss of language skills, difficulty in learning, lack of or minimal social communication and interaction. There is no single cause known, and it changes over time, given the complexity and the varying symptoms and signs. Probable causes include genetics (one person from the family might have autism), and environmental factors (viral infections, medications, pollution, complications during birth).

Finding Resources and Support

Firstly, and most importantly, go on as a normal family. Go on trips, have fun moments, and live as normally and as fun-filled as possible. Life should never stop because of circumstances outside of us. Secondly, visit a paediatrician or specialist. It is imperative to get reliable and accurate medical advice. Following a diagnosis, start your research to gain a better understanding. Thirdly, learn to recognise the signs or symptoms and learn ways to deal with them. Remember to be compassionate and empathetic towards them. Lastly, support them, and try to see things from their point of view. Encourage families living with autistic children to join support groups or a network where there are other children who have autism; by being with them, they can be able to form friendships and develop connections.

Conclusion

As you explore the complexities of family and autism, discover the unique strengths and challenges that may arise. And as you go through the process, unique opportunities for growth, learning and connection will start to emerge. Embrace acceptance, inclusion and empathy.