Introduction
Orphans are often placed under the care of guardians after their biological parents’ deaths. However, not all guardians are loving and responsible, and some are heartless and opportunistic. Some use foster childcare grants to support their children’s well-being while neglecting the well-being of the orphans. This highlights the need for better guardians to ensure the well-being of orphans.
Child Foster Care Grant
Child Foster Care Grant is a government grant given to those guardians who live with orphaned children under the age of 18 years of age to look after their needs. The value of the grant is R1,120 per child per month.
How Guardians Misuse Foster Care Grant
Guardians misuse grants to spoil orphaned children, focusing on personal indulgences rather than ensuring they can obtain a driver’s license and enrol in a university after matriculation.
While a portion of the grant can be used to add some food to the family, the other portion can be saved in a fixed savings account for the child. In some instances, where a portion of the grant was being saved, it was not used to support the orphaned child. Rather, it is used to support the guardian’s child to do a driver’s licence at the exclusion of the orphaned child. Some orphaned children are often seen as dirty in the streets, while the children of guardians are always clean and wearing nice clothes.
The Psychological Stress Caused by Guardians to Orphaned Children
In Ndumo, guardians often exhibit abusive behaviour towards orphaned children due to a lack of good relationships with deceased parents. This can lead to verbal and physical conflicts, negatively impacting the emotional well-being and growth of the children. Some may even leave the guardian’s household and live with others due to the lack of love. As children grow older, they may develop anger, resentment, and anti-social behaviour due to the hostile environment they have been exposed to.
Conclusion
Undeniably, guardians play a crucial role in the psychological growth of orphaned children. However, some may become abusive, negatively impacting their development. Regular visits by social workers can help ensure equal treatment and healthy emotional well-being.
