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The decision of having a baby

Introduction

Having a child is an important decision. However, it is often perceived as a matter of course rather than a considered choice. Faced with the current ecological and political crises, it is legitimate to question the relevance of giving birth. This article offers some food for thought, without claiming to be conclusive.

 

The Choice not to Reproduce

An Uncertain Future

Widespread pollution is affecting ecosystems, leaving an uncertain legacy for future generations. Endocrine disruptors, present in the air, water and soil, pose unprecedented challenges. These substances, which are active even in small doses, have an impact on individuals from embryonic life onwards, compromising their health and fertility. In this context, we may well wonder whether unborn children will have the opportunity to live in peace, or even to choose, in turn, to procreate.

 

Free Will

We did not choose to come into this world. This decision, often motivated by our parents’ personal or social desires, imposes on us a life made up of joys and challenges. By reproducing this pattern, we pass on to our offspring the burden of life’s ups and downs, without their consent.

 

The Choice to Reproduce

While the arguments against reproduction are convincing, those in favour are equally so.

A Non-pessimistic View

A society needs new generations if it is to function. Without children, problems such as an ageing population, labour shortages and weakened social systems (pensions, health) become critical. But children are not just beneficiaries: they are also agents of change. Figures such as Greta Thunberg and Malala Yousafzai have mobilised millions of people for essential causes. New generations can shape a better future. Refusing to reproduce for fear of our individual ecological footprint is a pessimistic view, because real change requires collective and systemic action. Choosing to reproduce also means giving hope and innovation a chance.

 

An Instinct and a Heritage

Reproduction is written into our DNA as a survival strategy for the species. In African cultures, giving birth is often seen as a sacred mission or a divine blessing. In certain Asian traditions, having children is a filial duty and a way of honouring one’s ancestors. Stoic philosophies, while recognising the importance of the family, invited reflection on parenthood in terms of the ability to offer a virtuous life to children. These visions show that reproduction, although universal, is influenced by cultural, religious and philosophical contexts. Reproduction means not only perpetuating a biological lineage but also passing on a cultural heritage and values.

 

Conclusion

Whether or not we choose to reproduce, the most important thing is to take this decision with a clear conscience, considering not only our personal desires, but also the implications for society and the planet.

 

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